
Find a qualified sex therapist or sexologist near you or online.
We connect you with trusted professionals who help you explore intimacy, sexual wellness, and connection — at your own pace.
Find your matchThe biggest network of psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors in the UK.
– Over 600 qualified, insured therapists who are registered with trusted organisations like BACP, HCPC, UKCP, or NCS.

What is sex therapy and who is it for?
Sex therapy, also known as psychosexual therapy, is a form of talk therapy that helps individuals and couples address challenges related to sex, intimacy, desire, and emotional connection, with the support of a qualified sex therapist or sexologist.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, married, queer, or just curious, sex therapy meets you where you are and helps you move toward a more connected, empowered experience of your sexuality.
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Why people seek help from a sex therapist.
There are many reasons people choose to work with a sex therapist, sexologist, or psychosexual therapist.
Here are some common reasons people begin in sex therapy or psychosexual counselling:
- Low sex drive or lack of desire (low libido)
- Painful sex (vaginismus, dyspareunia)
- Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety
- Difficulty reaching orgasm or feeling pleasure
- Mismatched desire or sexual frustration in relationships
How Meela works.
Meela guides you through the therapy jungle – match, book, and start therapy.
Find your matchWe match you.
First, you fill out our quick form, sharing what you’re looking for. Then, we use our smart matching tech to find therapists who are a perfect fit for you and your needs.
Choose your therapist.
We present the therapists who match you best. You can explore their specialties and experience to find the one that feels right for you.
Book and start therapy.
Once you’ve found your therapist, it’s time to book a clarity call or your first session. You’ll choose a time that works for both of you, and your journey begins.

Why matching matters.
For therapy to work, you and your therapist need to click. Without the right connection and trust, it’s easy to lose motivation,
That’s where Meela comes in. Our matching technology is based on research into the therapeutic alliance, helping you find a therapist who truly fits you.
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Your match is guaranteed.
If your first therapist doesn’t meet your criteria, we’ll rematch you and cover the cost of your first session with your new therapist. We know it’s hard to start over, and this is to make it easier.
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“My experience has shown me that with the right connection, therapy can touch parts of your life you didn’t even realise needed healing.”
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What do you need support with?
Explore common areas where therapy can help. Whether you’re feeling stressed, depressed, anxious, or facing something else entirely, Meela helps you find the right therapist for your needs — across the UK and Greater London.

We get what you need.
Finding the right support for sex and intimacy can feel overwhelming — but you’re not alone.
We help you connect with a trusted, qualified sex therapist, sexologist, or psychosexual therapist who truly understands what you’re going through.
Whether you’re healing from sexual trauma, exploring your sexual identity, building confidence, or working through intimacy and communication challenges. we’ll match you with someone who gets it.
Find your therapist
Get a clearer picture of your wellbeing.
Our self-tests help you explore how you feel and whether therapy might be for you.
Quick and easy tests with no right or wrong answers. By taking the tests, you can better understand yourself and how you feel.
To the formFind the right therapist, near you or online.
With our extensive network of trusted and registered sex therapists, sexologists, and psychosexual therapists, we can often connect you with someone near you. Almost all of our therapists also offer online sex therapy if you prefer support from home.
Find your matchSome of our therapists.

Zalfa
Qualified counselling psychologist

Thomas
Qualified psychotherapist

Sophie
Qualified psychotherapist and counsellor

Amy
Qualified psychologist and coach

Anaum
Qualified counsellor

Jo
Qualified counsellor

Alice
Qualified psychotherapist

Sara
Qualified psychotherapist

Anna
Qualified psychotherapist
Frequently Asked Questions
Sex therapy is a space to talk openly about things that might feel difficult, like low libido, painful sex, erectile dysfunction, or feeling distant from your partner.
A trained sex therapist, sexologist, or psychosexual therapist helps you explore what’s going on, at your pace, with no pressure or judgment.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, queer, straight, or exploring, sex therapy is for you. Many people come to work on intimacy, desire, confidence, or healing from past experiences. No issue is too small or too big.
They all support you around sex and relationships, but in slightly different ways.
- A sex therapist is often a mental health professional with extra training in sexual wellbeing.
- A sexologist may focus more on the science and education side.
- A psychosexual therapist often combines psychological and physical aspects in therapy.
Most of our therapists offer online sex therapy, so you can talk from wherever feels safe for you. If you’d prefer in-person, we also match you with sex therapists near you, including options in London and across the UK.
We offer a research-based matching service between you seeking therapy and our linked psychologists and psychotherapists.
We match you to the psychologist, psychotherapist or couples counsellor who is most qualified and compatible to help you – based on your personal preferences and psychological needs.
Meela’s matching is completely free, with no commitment to anything by filling out our form or getting matched.
If you decide to move forward and book with your therapist, the average therapy session ranges from £70 to £120 and is charged by your therapist.
We need your contact details to be able to pass them on to your chosen therapist so that you can get in touch and make an appointment.
Meela is a mental health company based in the UK and Sweden, dedicated to providing trustworthy, professional, and personalised care.
Since 2021, we have successfully matched tens of thousands of individuals and couples with therapists. Our commitment to quality and connection has established us as a trusted leader in therapy matching.